give me some space please? I'm just trying to breathe here, that's it!

呢個世界無話無咗邊個就唔得
但我無咗䁔水袋就一定就唔得!

The Man in the Arena

a quote by Theodore Roosevelt in April 1910

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat."

mandatory optimism (vii)

有些話，適合爛在心裡，

有些痛苦，適合無聲無息的忘記。

當經歷過，你成長了，自己知道就好。

 - 幾米

為別人改變自己最劃不來，到頭來你會發現委屈太大，而且，人家對你的犧牲不一定欣賞。